Do Nice Guys Finish Last? - BIKINI GIRLS
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14 May But let's talk about the word “nice” because it often gets conflated with being weak, desperate, and a pushover. Yes, women want to be with nice guys, but they don't want to be with men who don't have their own opinions or don't stand up for themselves or do everything a woman wants them to do at all. Or there's those down home country boys who love The Lord and are kind and sweet, now don't get me wrong they can have their badass side too. It all depends on personality. Sometimes the mean people are really the sweetest people, it just takes someone to show them that side in them. Some girls do like badass mean. 1 Apr “I'm doing everything right and I'm still single, so what does he have that I don't?” demand the lonely Nice Guys. But the key to attraction isn't about treating women like shit, it's about understanding the underpinnings of why women seem to go for bad boys – even when they say they want someone nice.
You can read it on my profile, but I'll save you the trouble. Of course, I don't prefer a jerk. But I would prefer a masculine male. Secure, intelligent and attractive. Someone firm enough in their views and sure and adept in their ways. I want someone who listes and understands, and if necessary can tactfully convey alternative approaches. And someone who can handle the same in return. I want someone I can trust to value the same principles in the same ways, at least loosely, and respect my views.
One who will make me feel like a woman. One who will protect me, value me, and Do Girls Like Sweet Guys me as his girl, and the only girl he needs. I want a man who thinks highly enough of himself, in a secure way, and deems me fully worthy of his respect.
I don't want one or the other, I won't both. And I think that's a completely understandable and realistic desire to have. Especially because that's Do Girls Like Sweet Guys kind of guy I have, and I have a few girlfriends who also have the same and are equally happy in their relationships. D so basically what your saying as long as the attraction there key values and they are considerate and masculine you will give them a chance if they are years younger?
I was meaning to reply to a question I asked about different age couples the women being older than the man haha! Well, even then, that would be reasonable. I'd date a guy slightly younger than me at this age. I think there are scattered periods of when I wouldn't, but I think any guy that truly were on a similar level and understood the same things, it would be worthwhile.
A man who'll take out the trash and then kiss his woman like he means it. A man who isn't belligerent but won't back don't from a worthy fight for what's right. A man who does what's right, not what's simply easy. That's my definition of 'masculine'. It is usally the sensitive guys and girls that are smarter than the masculine macho guys. Because they spend thier time alone and daydream etc. Which macho guys only drink and party. Why did the guys vote?
Who would want a rude mean jerk,right? If you are this type of guy then most girls ar probably drooling over you.: Not sure some guy came in here saying rude things to me trying to patronize me saying some stupid thing that made no sense However, in general, girls really do like the sweet sensitive guys, as long as they are ALSO confident and have a spine. I want a guy to be just as independent and stand-up as I am. To me there are two types of guys who are extremely attractive.
The dark mysterious secretive type who most people Do Girls Like Sweet Guys are badass and they usually are they aren't always mean but sometimes they are and they're still attractive. Or there's those down home country boys who love The Lord and are What Should I Do If A Boy Likes Me and sweet, now don't get me wrong they can have their badass side too.
Relating specifically with Kate For me, less is more. So basically, I'd prefer a mix between the two. That's a good thing!
It all depends on personality. Sometimes the mean people are really the sweetest people, it just takes someone to show them that side in them.
Do girls/women really like sweet sensitive guys? - GirlsAskGuys
Some girls do like badass mean guys though. I'm not sweet and sensitive, so I can't expect a guy to be. Poll is very biased though. If you wanted opposing categories it should have been sweet and sensitive vs blunt and insensitive. Yeah thanks for your answer I made this question quite quickly I thought I had to be somewhere but turns out I'm free I just wanted to get my point across lol ill take more time and word it out better next time did the question make sense to you though?
I love a sweet nice guy, but he has to be masculine at the same time. Somewhere in the middle.
Yes, it just usually comes down to the really nice, sweet and sensitive guys are quiet or shy. The guy inst going to approach the girl and a lot of us are to shy to approach you so we get no where. Lmao your poll options suck. You can tell which side you're on. It's like asking someone to pick between two dogs. One is cute and nice and a puppy and one is an old aggressive ugly dog that's killed a person.
Try your poll again. I am over thirty and yes, I definitely would choose a sweet, sensitive guy over a cute jerk. As you get older you realize what is really important and that includes how a man treats you. Im nice but I never let anyone walk all over me. How old are you if you don't mind me asking?
Do Nice Guys Finish Last? - BIKINI GIRLS
I like confident guys, not cocky. I'm confident, so I don't want a guy who is insercure and complains a lot It's more about the whole wearing the pants thing. Yeah I can understand that I'm confident I don't think I complain a lot lol do i? Are you trying to lose the weight or would like to maintain? Whats your age if you don't mind me asking?
South east Yeah, at least there's a bit of science albeit sketchy science to the way the wind blows. Not sure some guy came in here saying rude things to me trying to patronize me saying some stupid thing that made no sense All my girl friends are jealous and talk all the time about how they hope they can find a guy like him. D so basically what your saying as long as the attraction there key values and they are considerate and masculine you will give them a chance if they are years younger?
I like sweet, sensitive guys that can be tough when they need do. I already have one. I need a man who's a man.
Yes, he can have emotions. That's a good thing! Just don't act overemotional or anything. Nice answer no I mean who is sensitive about you and really cares about you who is Do Girls Like Sweet Guys tough and will do whatever it takes to protect you when it hits the fan he understands if your going through something and is there for you not super over emotional who is gonna cry if somebody doesn't like his shirt or hair or something because idgaf lol.
Okay, yeah that's fine: He's really manly when he needs to be, but when he's with me and his best friends he's very sweet and sensitive. Yea, but only in a relationship and anytime before that and they just view you as Mr. Also close this question. No I like mean guys that are all around bad people.
Select age and gender to cast your vote: What Girls Said At Least if their always like that. Its unappealing if he's nice to everyone all the time?
Because people take advantage of niceness. Hahahahahahahahahahah "I'm constantly loosing weight I want someone who is sweet and romantic. Whats your age if you don't mind beause the girls who say tis are usually older like 30s. What Guys Said 2. They claim A, but science has shown B. Most Helpful Opinion mho Rate. Select as Most Helpful Opinion?
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